Came across this on Facebook, a friend of mine shared it. Such a sweet lesson on slowing down, listening, & having compassion for others. After all, we’re all going to come to the end of our lives & when we look back we’ll realize that it went by in a blink.
I tried tracing it back to the original owner, but to no avail. I found someone who claimed they wrote it, but through further digging that wasn’t the case. If anyone knows who wrote it, please let me know so I can give due credit.
A NYC Taxi driver wrote:
I arrived at the address and honked the horn. After waiting a few minutes I honked again. Since this was going to be my last ride of my shift I thought about just driving away, but instead I put the car in park and walked up to the door and knocked.. ‘Just a minute’, answered a frail, elderly voice. I could hear something being dragged across the floor.After a long pause, the door opened. A small woman in her 90’s stood before me. She was wearing a print dress and a pillbox hat with a veil pinned on it, like somebody out of a 1940’s movie.
By her side was a small nylon suitcase. The apartment looked as if no one had lived in it for years. All the furniture was covered with sheets.There were no clocks on the walls, no knickknacks or utensils on the counters. In the corner was a cardboard box filled with photos and glassware.
“Would you carry my bag out to the car?’ she said. I took the suitcase to the cab, then returned to assist the woman.She took my arm and we walked slowly toward the curb. She kept thanking me for my kindness.
“It’s nothing”, I told her,”I just try to treat my passengers the way I would want my mother to be treated.”
“Oh, you’re such a good boy” she said. When we got in the cab, she gave me an address and then asked, “Could you drive
“It’s not the shortest way,” I answered quickly.
“Oh, I don’t mind,”she said. “I’m in no hurry. I’m on my way to a hospice.”
I looked in the rear-view mirror. Her eyes were glistening. “I don’t have any family left,”she continued in a soft voice.”The doctor says I don’t have very long.”
I quietly reached over and shut off the meter.”What route would you like me to take?” I asked.
For the next two hours, we drove through the city. She showed me the building where she had once worked as an elevator operator.We drove through the neighborhood where she and her husband had lived when they were newlyweds. She had me pull up in front of a furniture warehouse that had once been a ballroom where she had gone dancing as a girl. Sometimes she’d ask me to slow in front of a particular building or corner and would sit staring into the darkness, saying nothing.
As the first hint of sun was creasing the horizon, she suddenly said, “I’m tired. Let’s go now.”
We drove in silence to the address she had given me. It was a low building, like a small convalescent home, with a driveway that passed under a portico.Two orderlies came out to the cab as soon as we pulled up. They were solicitous and intent, watching her every move.
They must have been expecting her.
I opened the trunk and took the small suitcase to the door. The woman was already seated in a wheelchair.
“How much do I owe you?’ She asked, reaching into her purse.
“Nothing,” I said
“You have to make a living,” she answered.
“There are other passengers,” I responded.
Almost without thinking, I bent and gave her a hug. She held onto me tightly.”You gave an old woman a little moment of joy,’ she said, “Thank you.”
I squeezed her hand, and then walked into the dim morning light. Behind me, a door shut.It was the sound of the closing of a life. I didn’t pick up any more passengers that shift. I drove aimlessly lost in thought. For the rest of that day,I could hardly talk.What if that woman had gotten an angry driver, or one who was impatient to end his shift? What if I had refused to take the run, or had honked once, then driven away?
On a quick review, I don’t think that I have done anything more important in my life.
We’re conditioned to think that our lives revolve around great moments.
But great moments often catch us unaware-beautifully wrapped in what others may consider a small one.
This story reminded me of my late Grandma, who passed away a few short months ago. When she was placed into home-hospice care I was so fortunate to have weeks spent with her hearing her stories. Some she had already shared with me throughout my life, some that were new, some that she told & then re-told a few minutes later, already forgetting she just told it. I miss her so badly & I’d give anything to hear her tell a story again…but they’ve become memories, no longer associated with the present. So treasure the time you have with people, take the time to slow down (it’s a lesson I’m daily having to remind myself of) & LISTEN to them. Even if it comes as a hindrance to you, it could mean the world to somebody else.